For a woman who got divorced a few days ago, Madonna has been doing a remarkable job of gritting her teeth and ploughing on.
That’s not particularly surprising – years ago Madonna had her brain removed to make space for more bicep and her tear ducts were cemented up because she didn’t weep holy Kabbalah water – so we’ve come to expect steely, robotic reactions to everything from her. However, Madonna has now finally decided to accept her divorce and mention it in public for the very first time.
Speaking to the Associated Press, Madonna has said how sad she is about the divorce, and how grateful she is that her heavy workload can distract her from it. Wow, sadness and gratitude? We’ve seen Swept Away and Body Of Evidence – that’s literally about six more human emotions than we thought Madonna was capable of.
When Madonna married Guy Ritchie almost eight years ago, there was a lot of speculation about why the world’s most famous woman had decided to move to England to live with a man who looks like a potato and can’t decide whether he’s Ray Winstone or Terry Thomas. And all the time it was staring us right in the face.
Madonna married an Englishman because she’s essentially English herself. She rides horses, she speaks in something that she believes is an English accent, she wears vastly inappropriate clothing for her age (see: Loose Women) and – most importantly of all – instead of expressing an emotion, Madonna would rather roll up her feelings into a little black ball and push them down into the pit of her stomach where one day they’ll surge out of control and prompt an act of staggering violence on someone who doesn’t deserve it. It’s the British way.
You can see this fear of emotion in Madonna’s professional output – she’s so lifeless in all of her films that often we have to be reminded that we’re not watching a film about a veiny ventriloquist’s dummy, and the most profoundly emotional thing she could come up with on her most recent album is “tick tock tick tock tick tock” – but at least her recent divorce from Guy Richie has yanked some feeling out of her.
Last week, after their divorce was finalised, you’ll remember that Guy Ritchie reacted by smiling and looking pleased while Madonna gave everyone the finger like a surly teenager would. But, of course, in reality Madonna is as raw and vulnerable as you’d expect her to be in this situation – all the posturing and aggressive defiance was just to paper over the cracks in Madonna’s broken heart. The San Francisco Chronicle reports:
In an interview with the Associated Press, she says her intense schedule “provides a distraction that keeps me going,” adding, “I’m sad about my personal life, but I feel very blessed and very lucky that I have the opportunity to do what I do in my professional life. It would be horrible if I was just thinking about getting a divorce and had nothing to do.”
Look, we never said they were very big cracks, OK?
But now that Madonna has finally decided to allow herself to properly reflect on the divorce in a healthy and emotionally naked way, maybe she open herself to the remaining stages of being a 50-year-old recent divorcee, too.
For instance, first Madonna is bound to feel some resentment, then loneliness, then slowly she’ll come to terms with her loss. And then finally she’ll get shitfaced in a pikey disco in a small provincial town and end up wanking a frightened 18-year-old off in a toilet. That, too, is the British way.
pj says
Things could be worse for Madonna she could be bitter like you.
aron says
what you call lack of emotion is actually profesionalism.
you can’t expect from Madonna having a breakdown on stage
Mario says
Thank you PJ and Aron for your understanding of a hman situation. Some people, like the individual that “wrote”(and I use the term verrrry loosely) can be total bitches. Enuff said!
HT says
Yeah, get a life already! Madonna’s awesome and she can do no harm. Except when she acts in any film that isn’t Evita.
Mithaearon says
Wow seems Madonna “fans” are jsut as much fun to wind up as P-Doh fans (whats happened to him by the way? is he dead? He hasnt made the news for ages)
Oh
Madonna is a gristly old talentless performer well past her prime by about 15 years.
lady says
Madonna is a excellent business woman – we all know she was never a true singer – really and entertainer and business woman – and very very good at it.
So more power to her for being a professional and leaving her private struggles of the menu…
aron says
BTW why everybody’s obssesed with Madonna’s age.
I personally think ageism is a new racism, and says a lot about people secret fears..(Mithaeron?)
Mithaearon says
aron, I didnt call her old (but she is) I said she is “past her prime”. A performer in their early 20’s could be past their prime (Brittney anyone) if the music the produce is utter shite and not up to the high standards they once produced (hmmm maybe not Brittney then, she never had high standards). As pointed out by Stuart in the article Madonnas lyrical highlight nowdays consists of “tick tock tick tock”.
I stand by my point of saying she is past her prime. This is not ageism but my personal opinion of her talents. on the subject of “ism”‘s what is it nowadays with everyone having to be PC. Bollocks to it I say.
gir says
She’s too fuckin old. Put her out of everyone’s misery, Logan’s Run-style
mst3kster says
You can tell who the morons are. They’re the ones that come on a satirical website and rip the author, and anyone who agrees, a new one.
Mithaearon says
It amazes me that people can say Madonna isnt old looking, I mean check this picture of her out: http://groups.msn.com/_Secure/0LgAAAPoP12rJgDXLmnjeWidJjuEPzk6yah2lq3rFOWkug6Lx5Xowum6mCNR6ZlLuVixIeNmYaT8/Hag.jpg
Shooty* says
Madonna has not produced anything listenable since about Vogue and pink elephants and lemonade.
The test is this: if a non-famous artist tried to release Madonna’s new material, would it be well met, or howled at in derision? Answer: Howled at.
When people listen to her recent stuff, they’re not listening to the music: there is a part of their brain that subliminaly shouts “YOU LIKE THIS, IT’S MADONNA” and drowns out the actual sounds.
See also: George Michael.
pg says
So what exactly is “past it”?
STILL selling millions upon millions of CD’s?
STILL selling out when it comes to live gigs throughout the world?
STILL getting acres of space in papers and magazines?
STILL getting people from fans to plonkers talking about her?
Damn, in that case I want to be “past it”, big time.