Taylor Swift may finally see that she is that girl.? You know the one that I mean.? The girl who has a hundred hook ups, dates a bunch of guys, falls in love at the drop of a hat, and without fail every time it ends badly.?
And each time it ends, that girl is completely blindsided and heartbroken, never seeing what went wrong.? Meanwhile, you sit there going “Did you really not notice that dude was a total dick?”? or “Well, calling him 47 times a day may have been overkill.”? But that girl doesn’t listen, and within the next week or two she is back out on the prowl, looking for her next Mr. Right.?
Change the overbearing cell phone calls to buying a house down the block from the guy you’ve been banging for 2 weeks, and it’s a pretty spot on description of T. Swift.? But there may be a light at the end of the crazy girl tunnel, because in a new interview for InStyle magazine, Swift admits she may need to make some changes in her dating approach.
There’s an old saying about admitting your faults that applies to Taylor pretty well.? If one person thinks you’re an asshole, then you can ignore them.? If two people think you’re an asshole, meh there may be truth there but it could also just be bullshit.? However, if a whole room of people think you are an asshole, then yes- you most certainly are an asshole.? Swift is that person who is finally seeing that an entire room thinks she is the problematic asshole?in her relationships.
When you choose to date people like John Mayer, you obviously have questionable decision making ability (looking at you too, Katy Perry).?? However, in her interview with InStyle, Swift tries to play it off like her shitty choices are just part of a phase.
“My friends tease me about the fact that if someone seems bad or shady or like they have a secret, I find them incredibly interesting.? That's just a phase I've been in lately. I don't think this should be how I proceed in life. It's important to be self-aware about these things because you don't want to end up with that guy.”
Can you really call something a “phase” if it’s been your M.O for years?? Aren’t phases limited to a few weeks or months?? “I know I’ve been sleeping around like a total whore for 25 years, but it’s just a phase you guys!? I am so not a slut!”
But it is a good sign that Swift can see that she hasn’t been going after the nicest gentlemen.? However, do we really think she is going to stop after the guys that will totally end in heartache?? Swift’s whole musical career is based off of her post-break up lyrics.? Without these experiences, what will Taylor write about?? Let’s be honest, nobody wants to hear songs about her curly hair or her perfect life.? They want anthems they can (secretly) sing along to in their cars and dive deep into reading between the lines of the lyrics, looking for passive aggressive shots at some famous guy.
No one should really hold their breath though, cause I feel like Swift has played the enlightened card before and it didn’t change things.? Swift ends the article managing to sound sweet and snarky at the same time, which is kind of like all her music.
?I'd like to think if you're with the right person, you just feel great about things you've never felt great about before.? At least that's how I've heard it's suppose to be. I wouldn't know.”
That’s a deep burn, Taylor.? A nice big middle finger to Gyllenhaal!? And?Jonas. And?Mayer, Lautner, Kennedy, Styles.? Quite a phase, T. Swift. Quite a phase.
reality says
You read to much gossip, since January 2011 she has dated 2 people. And she hasn’t dated in 10 monthes according to her and a number of her friends. The girls life is under a Microscope so when you see a picture of her holding hands (Kennedy & Stiles) then they are dating otherwise its just unproven Gossip. And who are you to pick some arbitrary number that you deem to high. I always thought that you are supposed to date in your teens and twenties to find what works.Its normal and healthy to date and move on if its not right for you. And you are delusional to think she is the only one who is the cause of the break up. 99% of people who just broke up, will like her put some blame on themselves but most of the blame on the other person. One other fact is she is not like the normal 23yo that you or I know. She is one of the most famous people on the planet and she is worth about a quarter billion dollars. So comparison or opinions about her are based on are lives. None of us can truly understand the life or dating history of a 23yo who has the power and fame to sell out a 55 thousand seat stadium in 5min. Love her or hate her SHE IS NOT A NORMAL 23YO I DONT KNOW IF ITS GOOD OR BAD SHE IS DIFFERENT SO WE CANT JUDGE HER LIKE WE CAN JUDGE PEOPLE WE KNOW.
Allison says
These idiots are so ridiculous. They know NOTHING about Taylor!
Lyn says
Really? Who are you to judge her? You’re not a celebrity, so your life’s not under a microscope. Everything she does is publicity. So what if she’s a serial dater? At least she’s not swinging around naked on wrecking balls and licking hammers like ‘somebody else’ is. She isn’t pissing into buckets like the Biebs either, so I don’t see what your problem is.
deb says
it she was a guy and was dating “so many girl ” he would be the big guy on campus…I say go taylor go ..just dont buy the house next door….