Heidi Montag’s Ma Goes Batpoo About Spencer Pratt Wedding And now a public service announcement: Kids, if you're thinking about getting married, remember to always invite your mother. But don't invite your mother to your wedding just because the eternal bond of love you share makes you want her to share the happiest day of your life. Do it because if you don't she'll publicly will your marriage to fail and suggest that you only got married in the first place because your husband drugged you. Because that's what Heidi Montag's mother did after Heidi married Spencer Pratt. Lady, there's a seat warm at hecklerspray whenever you want it.